Flirting with Women Online

Many of us have experienced approach anxiety while out. For most it sets in when thinking about approaching a woman we find beautiful. Approach anxiety can be so crippling that it keeps you from ever talking to women.

There is a method for overcoming this social paralysis. For many approach anxiety begins as an internal negative dialouge. This mental loop can be countered with an opposing positive dialouge.

Question: “For what purpose did I go out tonight?”

Answer: “To meet a woman.”

Question: “How will I be able to meet and attract women?”

Answer: “There’s no way around it, I must approach them.”

Question: “If I don’t even attempt to approach any women how will I feel?”

Answer: “I’ll feel terrible and I will see tonight as worthless and awkward.”

Question: “For how long will I then think about this negative experience?

Answer: “I will think about it until I go out again and I will feel horrible.”

Question: “Do I want to feel bad about myself for a while or do I want to feel awesome right now?”

Answer: “I want to feel like a rock-star, let’s do this!”

Then, to make all of the above worthwhile, you must take action. Use the strong negative feeling of your approach anxiety to propel you to approach. Turn your fear into your power.

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