Dating A Very Good Looking Person And Trying Not To Be Insecure
Wed, Oct 7, 2009
How much would you like to bet that Brad and Angelina don’t suffer from this particular insecurity. They’re both extremely good looking people. Millions of readers around the world have cast their votes on gossip websites and in well known magazines making this a global good looking couple.
Even if they were single, they would have more than enough suitors after them and would have it easy and may not have to consider internet dating as a resource unless they chose to do so.
It’s only natural that two good looking people will grab people’s attention. But what about when you’re the one who is dating a really good looking companion? Would you be able to handle it? If it’s happened to you already, did it go well?
When I was younger, I did date a man who was very handsome. There were even times I thought to myself, what was he doing with me? I mean, I was cute, but only in a girl next door way. He, on the other hand was quite good looking; very good looking to be exact. When we were together women would swoon. Guys would even look as we walked by.
And that was the issue; they looked at him and not at me. I was to insecure to date someone so good looking and we didn’t date for long. Though I was sad when we stopped dating (he was a nice enough guy), I was happy that the relationship was over and I didn’t have to feel jealous every time we went out.
When I stop and think about it, his looks weren’t the issue. How I dealt with them was. He was just a nice guy looking for love and he obviously found me attractive enough to date. I’d dreamed about the man with movie star looks since I was a teen, but now that I’d found him I didn’t know what to do with him. I couldn’t enjoy him for the funny person he was; his looks got in the way.
Of course physical appearance counts; it’s the first thing we notice when we meet someone But to take a relationship to the next level most of us rely on more than just looks; we put our faith in personality and things we may have in common.
Well life has given me a second chance. I’m currently seeing someone even better looking than before (who knew that it was even possible?). Now when we hold hands in public and the ladies swoon, I smile, and mean it. My guy is as handsome in the inside as he is on the outside. And I’m secure enough in my own strengths that his looks just aren’t an issue.
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October 20th, 2009 at 7:37 am
Here are an easy way. Keeping your confidence and your optimism levels high is critical. We all have hit rough patches, don’t let your search become a death march. Date in phases if necessary.