Dating Psychology 101: Demystifying Her Body Language
Fri, Mar 12, 2010
When you go on a night out with your buddies – it could be that you are simply out to have a good time. But if you are single and the situation presents itself that there\’s a possibility for you to hook up with a beautiful woman, why pass up the chance? Another scenario is when it is your specific purpose to meet members of the opposite sex and perhaps get an invitation by the end of the night. No matter which of these categories you fall under, there are certain skills that you need to learn so that you can unleash the Casanova in you.
The first question that you need to ask is where you would like to go. Naturally, most casual encounters with the opposite sex would occur in bars and clubs. Both genders hang out here to specifically mingle and practice their dating skills. For men, it\’s all a matter of discover the inner Lothario or Casanova in you. After scoping out the place during a busy weekend – either alone or with a few of your buddies, the second skill that you need to work on is to look for cues on whether or not a woman\’s interested.
Basically, women are habitually giving out non-verbal cues to show their interest. If you receive \’the look\’ once you initially try to approach her, then you might not necessarily be using your finest dating techniques. Get rid of the pickup lines which you have been using for God-knows-how-long, and simply use a subtle but straightforward approach.
Next, you should make sure that your body-language-reading skills are still intact. This will basically be your saving grace and help you decide whether or not you should extend that invitation for a next date. Or, if you are lucky, you might just be able to get a subtle invitation to come home with her by the end of the night.
Casanova Tactics on How to Understand Her Body Language
So you already know the importance of listening to her body language. If you have zero clue about how you can go about doing this, take a look at the following list. Here are the body language-reading skills that every man embroiled in the dating scene should master.
Leaning over – \”It\’s okay for you to talk to me\”. When a woman leans over you when she is trying to make a point or when listening to what you have to say – especially if it is not that crowded in the bar – it means that she is comfortable enough for you to prolong the conversation. This is the time that you can use your Casanova skills and charm the heck out of her.
Holding your gaze. Men usually need not-so-subtle invitations because they are really clueless when it comes to what women want. But when a woman who you just met deliberately holds your gaze for five seconds or so, that is a good sign that you have managed to capture her interest for real. She is basically speaking to you with her eyes and telling you that it is up to you to make the next move.
Combined body language and subtle hints – \”You can invite me for a nightcap.\” Some men are simply lucky in this department. If she flirts with you right back, initiates physical contact and reacts positively to your verbal and physical overtures, then that is a sign that she is thinking along the lines of tangling the sheets with you.
Naturally, when you recognize these signs, it is up to you to make the initial move. Women would not want to be labelled as promiscuous or too forward – so once you recognize the signs, do make the first move, you Casanova! The dating world may be a bit complex, but a woman\’s body language isn\’t. So learn to read the signs and you should be able to get her number, set a real date or even go home with her by the end of the night.
George Andrews is an expert writer who has created a few e-books and authored plenty of online and offline articles on dating and relationships. Know how to have more women surrender to your charms by subscribing to his blog and checking out his website.
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March 13th, 2010 at 8:29 pm
sorry, I don’t get it