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Decoding The Secret Language Of Women, Part 1

Sun, Apr 5, 2009

Dating

Sometimes, a woman will say one thing, but it’s later revealed that she meant something completely different.

You’ve seen that happen before, right?

For instance, sometimes a girl will say “I only like to date guys who are taller than me.”

And then, the next guy you see her out on a date with is about a foot shorter than she is.

Sometimes a woman will say she prefers to be taken out to dinner and a movie.

And then, she tells you the best date she ever had was when a guy took her on a walk on the beach.

Sometimes the woman says she’s looking for a guy with a nice, steady job who can provide for her.

And then, she’s seen galavanting around with some dirt-poor schmoe who doesn’t have a penny to his name.

Any way you look at it, there are hordes of women who claim to like one thing, but when it comes down to it, they respond to a whole different thing entirely.

This is known a the phenomena of “Girl Speak.”

Most guys don’t know how to translate this “Girl Speak”, and it’s a big problem, as they take a girl seriously in regards to it.

But this is a huge, HUGE mistake!

Women very rarely say what they actually mean. And because of that, they respond really well to guys who know how to interpret what they are really saying.

Take me for instance…

I’m a fat, bald, ugly shlub. Definitely no winner in the looks department.

But I’ve dated women who say they aren’t into “fat” guys. In fact, they actually prefer guys who “take care of themselves” and “go to the gym.”

Yet they still agree to date me!

I’ve dated girls who were way younger than me. One of my more recent girlfriends was 20 years old. I’m 30. This girl wasn’t interested in dating an older guy, yet for me she made an exception.

I’ve dated a woman who claimed to only enjoy the company of black men. I’m white. She made an exception for me somehow…

How did I make this happen? Read part 2 to learn more!

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2 Comments For This Post

  1. Dating Black Woman Says:

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  2. geoff daum Says:

    Yep – I would agree with that.. Thanks for the line.

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